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NEW!

 GREAT NEWS for parents of students 14 years of age and older!!!

If your specials needs teenager is high functioning and diploma bound but still doesn’t have age appropriate social and emotional skills, do we have a program for you!

Do you worry at night that when your child graduates from high school, that they won’t be ready for the employment market, college or trade school or independence?

Does your child's school address your their academic needs but neglects to provide them with sufficient levels of support and services to properly address their social skills, independent functioning skills, independent living skills, community engagement skills and community integration skills?

If the answers to these questions are YES, then please read this excerpt from the law:

 

http://www.vesid.nysed.gov/specialed/publications/lawsandregs/sect2001.htm

 

 


    200.1(fff)    Transition Services means a coordinated set of activities for a student with a disability, designed within a results-oriented process, that is focused on improving the academic and functional achievement of the student with a disability to facilitate the student's movement from school to post-school activities, including, but not limited to, post-secondary education, vocational education, integrated employment (including supported employment), continuing and adult education, adult services, independent living, or community participation.  The coordinated set of activities must be based on the student's strengths, preferences and interests, and shall include needed activities in the following areas:
    (1)    instruction;
    (2)    related services;
    (3)    community experiences;
    (4)  the development of employment and other post-school adult living objectives; and
    (5) when appropriate, acquisition of daily living skills and provision of a functional vocational evaluation.

 


Now that you have read the law, you understand that transition services are your child’s right. The truly unfortunate thing is that the DOE does not really provide a program or a service to address these needs and rights of our high functioning children. Sadly, if your children were NOT diploma bound, the DOE has transition services for them. However, the DOE has NOTHING for the new generation of high academically achieving students with low to moderate social skills, who ARE diploma bound!


BUT, the really good news is, that there now IS an IEP driven program out there for your child’s transitional needs!

Through the collaborative efforts of very talented psychologists, speech pathologist, Occupational Therapist and Physical Therapist, a Transition program has now been developed to teach the skills of independence, community living, and community engagement to your child!

 

This program will address the following areas of functioning:


                                                                     1) Independent living
                                                                     2) Community engagement and interaction (social skills)
                                                                     3) Health, Safety and Nutrition
                                                                     4) Movement, mobility and travel/transportation

These skill areas will be addressed through four different modalities, in separate group sessions and then with a combined modality approach for the fifth session. 


The specific goals that the group will be working on will be specific to the group participant’s individual needs; however, here is an example of the types of skills that might be worked on depending on the individual needs of the group participants:

 

TRANSITION GOALS



Communication Skills
 
1) The student will pause when approaching people, to see if they are in they are engaged in a task or conversation before he engages them.

2) When in contact or conversation with others, the student will recognize the non-verbal and verbal cues of when he is being overbearing or dominating the moment and will temper his discussion or interaction accordingly.

3) The student will be able to learn the strategies for making lists when given verbal instructions.

4) The student will learn how to state his specific needs within the community, i.e.: asking bus driver to alert him of his stop, ordering food items specifically such as, specifying an unseeded roll, “toasted” roll, or “hold” an item.

5) The student will be able to independently an appropriately make phone call inquiries regarding needs such as, employment opportunities, scheduling appointments, phone interview, the rental of an apartment, making purchases, arranging instillation or service, utility inquiries,  etc.

6) The student will answer questions about himself and his experiences in a realistic and truthful manner.

7) The student will be able to participate in an interview appropriately, he will listen to the interviewer appropriately, will not dominate the conversation and he will respond accurately and appropriately to what is asked.

8) The student will learn appropriate discretion in giving out personal information about himself, his family and others, to strangers, acquaintances, teachers, friends and classmates.

Independent Living Skills

9)  The student will gain an ability to develop realistic time management plans.

10) The student will gain a realistic understanding of the true value of money.

11) The student will gain an understanding of the true limits and access of money.

12) The student will be able to understand the budgetary monitoring and responsibilities required for independent living.

13) The student will learn to develop independently a realistic mock budget.

14) The student will gain a realistic perception of time and time passage.

15) The student will be able to independently develop time management plans and daily schedules to include school, work, leisure time and responsibilities

16) The student will explore adult leisure activities and get an understanding for what activities he enjoys and can feasibly and realistically participate in.

17) The student will learn how to independently and safely make basic meals that he enjoys to eat.

18) The student will be able to develop a simple, economical, weekly menu and will be able to develop a grocery list to fulfill it.

19) The student will learn where important facilities and municipalities are located in the community he lives in and he will learn how to get there and contact them (i.e.; Hospital, doctors office, dentist, police department, post office, bank, grocery stores, Mall etc)

20) The student will learn a realistic understanding of his health needs (routine medical and dental appointments and urgent care needs), and will recognize what is a serious health related concern that needs addressing by a health care professional and what isn’t (i.e.; bruises and scratches can be cared for at home, gashes and broken bones cannot).

Vocational Skills

21) The student will learn a realistic understanding of his current employment qualifications and employability.

22) The student will learn a realistic understanding of the requirements and precursor education, experience and training needed to attain his future employment goals.

23) The student will learn how to appropriately receive constructive criticism and/or correction.

Social Emotional

24) The student will be able to recognize and assume responsibility for his actions, regardless of his intents and apologize and rectify the problem.

25) The student will learn to utilize the various supports available to him and will seek assistance unprompted.

26) The student will decrease the animated and/or exaggerated way in which he acts and reacts in social situations.

27) The student will learn the appropriate volume to use when speaking and laughing.

28) The student will learn how to be an active, but silent listener.

29) The student will recognize, by the reaction of others when he behaves inappropriately

30) The student will not dominate conversation or interrupt with tangential off topic stories.

31) The student will learn how to have a conversation and not just retell stories.

32) The student will understand that being silly or odd is not an appropriate form of social interaction.

33) The student will learn to tell an authority figure when he is being picked on or made fun of.

34) The student will not allow peers to “dare” him or coax him into doing dangerous or inappropriate things just to be accepted.

35) The student will recognize the difference between a “friend” and a friendly acquaintance.

36) The student will recognize the non-verbal cues of when people do not wish to engage in conversation or interact with him.

Mobility and Transportation Goals

37) The student will learn how to get home from school by three different methods (i.e. two different bus routes and the train).

38) The student will learn the proper way to politely but expediently, disengage from contact with an unknown person who approaches him.

39) The student  will be able to successfully and independently use resources like MTA Trip Planner, Access NYC,
311, map quest, and bus maps to plan out local trips to school, employment, library, store, mall, grocery store, doctor’s, dentist, bank library or medical facilities, movie theater, bowling and other places of leisure activities, etc.

40) The student will be able to plan trips and local excursions, including time calculations for departure and arrival and the cost of transportation.

41) The student will be able to safely and independently travel to work, school, vocational program, bank, store, medical and dental appointments, stores, library and throughput the community.

42) The student will be able to learn age appropriate safety awareness skills and social/safety judgment skills.

43) The student will gain a realistic understanding and estimation of his true size, (with outerwear and back pack, and without), as well as recognizing the true spaces that he is ambulating in and around.

44) The student will recognize when he is in a high traffic area when ambulating and accordingly not stop suddenly or veer to the left or right without looking first.

45) The student will be aware of others ambulating around him and will accordingly, not “cut them off” or crash into them and recognize the personal space of others.

46) The student will be aware when he is bumping into people and he will pause and apologize.

47) The student will decrease self-stimulatory body and hand movements to a normalized appearance when standing still or speaking.

48) The student will assume a more normalized gate when walking, running and jogging.

  HEALTH, SAFETY AND HYGIENE

49) The student will gain a basic understanding of first aide and safety

49) The student will learn to identify a superficial injury versus a moderate injury versus a serious injury

50) The student will learn how to calmly address and care for each of the above mentioned concerns (self-care, a doctors visit, and ER visit)

51) The student will learn to identify when he is not feeling well and what the inappropriate course of action is (self care, doctor’s visit, ER visit)

52) The student will learn the proper way to politely be expediently disengage from contact with an unknown person who approaches him.

If you are interested in your child participating in this IEP driven program, please mail a copy of your child’s most recent IEP, their most recent evaluations and progress reports and most recent school report cards, with an accompanying cover letter detailing your primary transitional concerns for your child and contact information, to the following address:

 

    Families Helping Families
    Attention Transition Program
    112 Petrus Avenue
    Staten Island New York 10312

 

After a review of the requested information, you will be contacted to arrange an interview for your child with the program facilitators.

Sincerely,

Andrea Anna Lella

 

 

 

UPCOMING EVENTS!
(Please feel free to circulate, post and distribute as needed and appropriate)

PARENTS OF SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN
HAVE YOUR VOICES HEARD!!!
DEPARTMENT of EDUCATION IS SENDING TOP SPECIAL EDUCATION OFFICIALS TO STATEN ISLAND TO HEAR YOUR CONCERNS!!!

WHO: Chief Achievement officer of Special Ed, Laura Rodriguez
and Deputy Achievement Officer, Dov Rokeach

WHAT: A City Wide Council for Special Education Meeting

WHEN: THIS Wednesday evening, October 21, 2009 @ 6:30 PM

WHERE: Marsh Avenue Expeditionary Learning School, Marsh Avenue and Essex Drive, (behind PS 58 and the SI Mall)

WHY: To hear YOUR concerns and comments regarding your child's special education services!

Please come to this meeting and tell the DOE's highest special ed officials what is working and what is not.

Let them know how to better meet your child's needs!

If you are having any type of problem, like busing, placement, a lack of timely services, inadequate program choices, etc, come have your voice heard!

 
NY Lawyers for the Public Interest - Parent Training in Special Education Legal Advocacy
 
Is your child in special education? Do you want to improve your child’s school program?  Are you confused about how special education works? Would you like some questions answered?
 
If you answered YES to any of these questions, you should attend: SPECIAL EDUCATION LEGAL ADVOCACY PARENT TRAINING
 
At this two-hour workshop attorneys from New York Lawyers for the Public Interest will share important information about the Individuals With Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) – the law that requires school districts to provide special education and services.
 
Parents and Guardians will learn some skills for negotiating effectively with the New York City Department of Education at:
 IEP and School Meetings
 Mediation and Resolution Sessions
 
CONSULTATION
Participants will also have an opportunity to meet individually with an attorney to discuss legal strategies for their child’s education.
 
Special Guest: The coordinator of the Special Education Mediation Program from Safe Horizon will be giving a short presentation on the differences between mediation and impartial hearings. Participants will have the opportunity to see mock special education mediation and to explore whether mediation is the right choice for them.
 
Space is limited. Pre-registration is required.
Call Suhali at (212) 244-4664, Ext. 348. 
 
Special Education Legal Advocacy and Consultation
Using Negotiation Skills to Improve Your Child’s School Program
 
Bronx  October 29, 2009
Borough President’s Office
851 Grand Concourse, Room 206
 
Brooklyn  November 12, 2009
Safe Horizon Community Mediation Center
210 Joralemon Street, Room 618
 
Manhattan  November 16, 2009
United Cerebral Palsy of NYC
120 East 23rd Street, Room 525
 
All training sessions will be from 6:00 P.M. – 8:00 P.M
 
New York Lawyers for the Public Interest is the authorized protection and advocacy agency in NYC under the Protection and Advocacy for Individuals with Mental Illness and Developmental Disabilities Acts.
 
The Safe Horizon Mediation Program coordinates the special education, early intervention, and VESID mediation programs in Manhattan and Brooklyn.
 
 
 
 
THE GRACE FOUNDATION
264 WATCHOGUE ROAD
 STATEN ISLAND, NY 10314
TEL NO: 718-983-3800
FAX NO: 718-983-3858
 
 
GRACE FOUNDATION ANNUAL PICNIC
Sunday, October 4, 2009.  12:00pm-5:00pm.
Goodhue Center, 304 Prospect Avenue (Entrance on Lafayette Avenue), Staten Island.
See attached flyers for details.
 
 
The Grace Foundation Recreation Programs (Gym, Swimming, Bowling) will resume in September (date to be determined).  Registration information will be sent via e-mail the week of August 3rd, 2009.
 
The Little League Program will continue through October 25, 2009.  This will be converted to a Medicaid Waiver Program, so the child must be Medicaid eligible to participate.  If you have any questions, or require Registration information, please call Julie Larsen at 718-983-3800.
 
As per OMRDD, the Recreation Programs will be converted to Medicaid Waiver Programs.  If your child does not have Medicaid Waiver, please start the process to ensure that your child is eligible to participate in the aforementioned programs.  This is an OMRDD Regulation.
 
If you have any questions, or need assistance, please call 718-983-3800. 
 
PARENT SUPPORT GROUPSREGISTRATION IS REQUIRED.  

The second and fourth Tuesday of every month at 10:00am at 264 Watchogue Road, SI.

The next meeting date is Tuesday, June 23.  Parent Support groups do not meet during the months of July and August.  The next meeting  will be Sept. 8, 2009.  Please call the Grace Office at 718-983-3800 to register.  See attached flyer for dates.

 
ASPERGER PARENT SUPPORT GROUPREGISTRATION IS REQUIRED
Asperger Support group does not meet during July and August. 
The next meeting will be Thursday, Sept. 17, 2009.
264 Watchogue Road, Staten Island, NY.  Please call the Grace office at 718-983-3800 to register.
See flyer for additional dates.
 
SOCIAL SKILLS -  Social Skills Classes will run until July 30, 2009.  Please call Julie Larsen at 718-983-3800 for additional information. 
 
RECREATION PROGRAMS:
 
BOWLING - Resumes in Sept. 2009.
AT SHOWPLACE located at 141 East Service Road -off Victory Blvd.
Sundays, 10:00am - 11:30am.
 
GYM PROGRAM - Resumes in Sept. 2009
Saturdays. P.S. 55, 54 Osborn Ave, Staten Island.
Please call Julie Larsen at 718-983-3800 for further information.
Session 1 -   9:15am-11:15pm
Session 2 - 11:30am-  1:30pm 
 

SWIMMING - Resumes in September. Saturdays 2:30pm-3:30pm and Mondays 5:30pm-6:30pm.  Please call Julie Larsen at 718-983-3800 to register.

 
LITTLE LEAGUE -  Little League will continue through October 25, 2009. Please call Julie Larsen at 718-983-3800 to register. 
 
----- FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY-----

OPPORTUNITY TO PARTICIPATE IN RESEARCH

Boys and young men between the ages of 9 and 21 diagnosed with Autism or PDD (not Asperger's) are needed to participate in a Doctoral Research Study.  Subjects will be asked to play a picture bingo game 1:1 with the experimenter for up to 20 minutes. All subjects will win and get prizes.
Assistance with Transportation or Transportation reimbursement and $50 stipend, plus customized Bingo prizes.
Dates and times to be arranged at your convenience.
Location:  Institute for Basic Research
Please call Laurie Yankowitz at 718-422-3271 or 646-734-5068. See flyer attached.
 
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EVOLUTION DANCE COMPANY (Forest Avenue) - Dance Classes for children with special needs - Sundays.  Ages 3 and up.  Call Lisa for information at 718-909-2542.

 


Special Olympics Soccer League and Training Clinic!

 

 

Who: Special needs children of all functioning levels ages 6-16

 

 

What: A soccer league and skills training clinic

 

 

Where: Miller Field, New Dorp, Staten Island New York

 

 

When: 4/25, 5/2, 5/9, 5/16, 5/30, 6/6, 6/13

 

 

Why: To support our children’s need for recreation!

Please note that during the skills training sessions, all children will be assessed and placed on teams according to functioning level, age and size. All coaches, assistant coaches and shadows will be trained by Special Olympics.

 

 

To register:

 

 

First go to the League website, which is at www.siysl.org, then click on the link for TOPSocccer Registration on the left of the home page, then on the next screen click on the orange bar that says login and register here. On the next page, enter your e-mail address and a password, and that will take you to the standard SIYSL registration form. After you have completed the information on that form and saved it, the site will take you to our questionnaire on the next screen page, and you enter the rest of the information there.

 

Please use a valid email address; this is an e-mail based system whose features will allow us to quickly organize the athletes into appropriate practice groups and teams, once everybody is registered.  It will also allow me to advise all of you promptly of any cancellations or postponements due to weather conditions, as we had to do so often in the fall.

 

 

For more information, contact Coach Rooney at: 

 

CRooneycmr@aol.com   or      917-885-0740

 

 

NEW!

 

“Families Helping Families” Presents:

 

A FREE Eight Week Special Education Workshop Series

 

Conducted by Andrea Lella

 

 

Learn everything you ever wanted to know about helping your special needs child but didn’t know where to ask!

 

Topics to be addressed:

 

Special Ed Law - Learn the Law and how to access the services available, so you can be the best advocate for your child.

 

Your Rights- They're your child’s rights! Learn how to protect them!

 

Educate yourself- Allow us to translate the acronym ridden and mystical world of the DOE and IEP development into straight talk.

 

Parenting Tips - Learn strategies to implement in your home that will support your child’s learning, independence and behavioral development.  Discover the path to your child's success!

 

WHEN: Mondays from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM

3/2/, 3/9, 3/16, 3/23, 3/30, 4/11, 4/20, 4/27, 5/11 (make up date for canceled 5/4 date)

 

 

EXTENDED 4 MORE WEEKS!!!

 

WHEN: Thursdays from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM

5/21, 5/28, 6/11 & 6/18

 (JUNE 18TH EVEN CANCELED!!!)

 

 

WHERE: SIDDSO, “Elizabeth Connelly Center

930 Willowbrook Rd. Bld. 41 A

(Building with blue awning).

 

For Additional Information and to Pre-Register for entire course or select weeks, email:

 

FamiliesHelpingFamilies@MSN.com

 

(Course syllabus to be announced)

 

 

This FREE Eight Week Educational Workshop series will include instruction on the following topics; Advocacy, The Law, Impartial Hearings, Your Rights as a Public AND Private school parent, Compliance & Implementation, Your Rights to Reject an IEP, Sate Education Complaints, IEP development, understanding evaluations, goal development, available testing accommodations, Functional behavioral Assessments (FBA), Behavioral Intervention Plans (BIP), Behavioral Modification Plan (BMP), available services & programs, modified promotional criteria, transition, homework strategies, behavioral techniques, parenting tips and much, much more!

 HELPFUL HINT; FEEL FREE TO BRING YOUR CHILD'S IEP, EVALUATIONS, STANDARDIZED TESTS ETC. 

NEW!

A large number of children, teen, and family events and classes offered for free by the Greenbelt Recreation Center for the months of April, May, and June have now been added to the calender. These events include:

  •  Adaptive Tennis and Wheelchair Power Soccer (Sundays)
  • Teen Fitness (Mondays and Fridays)
  • Teen Improv Workshops (Tuesdays and Wednesdays)
  • Teen Volleyball (Thursdays)
  • Family Fitness Hike, Family Intro to Chess, Kids Drums, Teen Tennis, Kids Ceramics, and Family Wiffleball (all on Saturdays)
Also, various Spring Brake activities from April 13th to April 17th are available.
 
Specific dates, times, and age requirements can be found for each event on the calender, and more information can be obtained by calling the Greenbelt Recreation Center at (718) 667-3545


                                                                                                                             

 

 

                                                                                                                     

 

PAST EVENTS!

 

 

 

 

COME PLAY FOOTBALL WITH US!!!!

 

 

December 14

January 4, 11, 18

 

  • The Challenger Football Program will be meeting on Sunday, 12/14/08 , 11 AM @ Victory Sports Arena, on Wild Ave (Victory Blvd & West Shore Expwy behind the NY Sports Club) Indoor facility!!!  The new indoor facility is very comfortable for players and fans!!! The league wil also be running on Sunday 1/4/09, 1/11/09 & 1/18/09 we will be at the same location above @ 1 PM

For more  information please call Rick Clark (718)667-0241 or go to  www.leaguelineup.com/sipwfl

 

 

 

November 9–

·        Celebrate Diversity @ Wagner College gym from 2 Pm – 6PM.  Experience other cultures and its FREE.  This year’s celebration highlights cultures of China, Russia, Sierra Leone, Mexico and Native American neighbors.  Music, dance & free T-shirt.

 
November 10

·        Free Workshop for parents of young children on behavior Guidance and Discipline. This workshop is  by the Early Childhood Direction Center. From 7-9:00 PM. Holy Child in Eltingville.  Call 718-226-6670 to register. 7-3542.

 
November  11

·        Northfield Bank Cool School Holiday.  Free Admission to SI Children’s Museum. 7181-273-2060.

      ·        Totem Animals.  Learn about the animals in the park & create a totem pole.  Urban Park Rangers, Blue Heron Park 718-9673542.

 

November 16

·        Parent & Child Sensory Safari.  Discover the outdoors using all five senses. Ages 3-6.Prereg. Clay Pit Ponds.  718-967-1976.

 
November 19 -

·        Free Lecture about what is new in the field of neurology. Back by popular demand, Drs. DeFina & Neubrander will speak on all the new and interesting things going on in the field of neurology. Free Dinner.  You must RSVP.  SEE ATTACHED FLYER.

 
November 22 & 23 –

·        Thanksgiving Kitchen Tour.  Tour the oldest kitchen on the site. Historic Richmondtown.  718-351-1611.

 
November 23

·        The Park at Dark. Explore the dark corners of Blue Heron Park.  718-967-3542.

 

December 1 –

·        Holiday Music Performance – Mistletunes Holiday Rock N’Roll.   Squeaky Clean presents tunes for all the Holidays CSI. Enrichment thru the Arts.  718-982-5678.

December 3–
  •  The Christmas that Almost Wasn’t.  CSI  Enrichment thru the Arts.  718-982-5678.
  • Northfield Bank Foundation. Cool School Holiday. Free admission. SI Children’s Museum. 718-273-2060.

 

December 4 –

  •  Special Needs Workshops.  Presented by Resources for Children with Special Needs, Inc. Free Training Series.  Held at the JC of SI on Manor Road.  10 AM – 1:00 PM.  Getting Appropriate Educational Services. For more information call Gary Shulman 212-677-4650.

  

 Log on for events      www.sigreenbelt.org

  

Special Olympics Soccer League and Training Clinic!

Who: Special needs children of all functioning levels ages 6-16

What: A soccer league and skills training clinic

Where: Miller Field, New Dorp, Staten Island New York

When: SKILLS CLINICS TO BE HELD ON: September 27th & October 4th from 2:30PM to 4:00 PM

GAMES TO BE PLAYED ON: October 18th & 25th and November 1st, 8th, & 15th from 2:30 to 4:30 PM

Why: To support our children’s need for recreation!

Please note that during the skills training sessions, all children will be assessed and placed on teams according to functioning level, age and size. All coaches, assistant coaches and shadows will be trained by Special Olympics and all assistant coaches and 1:1 shadows will be disabilities trained by Families Helping Families.

Documents required:
Special Olympics medical/consent

Please mail completed forms to Head Coach Rooney at: 

Chris Rooney
43 Colonial Court
SI, NY 10310

Coach Rooney can be contacted at: 

CRooneycmr@aol.com

 or 718-816-9847

 For any questions regarding your child special needs please contact us at:

FamiliesHelpingFamilies@msn.com

 FamiliesHelpingFamilies@msn.com

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More Information (MS Word File)

 

 

Free Recreation Program for Special Needs Children Ages 6-9

Program runs from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM on Saturdays, September through June.

Sports activities will be followed by snack time, a bathroom break, and swimming!

 

Activities to include:  

Cooperative play, taking turns, running races scooter board, races, sport skills: throwing, kicking, bouncing, running, jumping, etc.

Learned through various activities such as:  soccer, obstacle courses, stretches, parachute, games.

Day ends with 30 minutes in the pool.

 

Documents required:
Special Olympics medical/consent
Elizabeth Connelly pool medical
Psycho-ed or psycho-social evaluation - with adaptive behavior scores and IQ.

 

Children must be ambulatory and bathroom trained.

 

Interested parties please contact Ms. Joanne Certo @ 212-870-4870 or after 5:00 PM call 347-623-3003

 

Medical forms can be sent to the Special Olympics Office at:
SI Special Olympics
930 Willowbrook Rd.  Bldg. 12-G
SI NY 10314

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Special Olympics Medical Form (PDF file)

This form is required for the Soccer Clinic and Recreation Program.

 

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